FREE LIVE ONLINE SESSION • 75 MINUTES
Find The Lock
You’ve spent years being there for everyone else. When was the last time you checked in with yourself?
You’re the one people count on. The mother. The partner. The daughter. The friend. The strong one. Somewhere between caring for others, meeting expectations and holding everything together, it can be easy to lose touch with what you want and need.
Find the Lock is a free, 75-minute guided online experience for women who want to reconnect with themselves. We’ll explore the roles you carry, the patterns you may repeat, and the beliefs that can influence your choices. You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to be curious about yourself.
📅 Sat, Nov 14 · 9:00 AM ET
📅 Wed, Nov 18 · 7:30 PM ET
📅 Wed, Dec 2 · 7:30 PM ET
📅 Sat, Dec 12 · 9:00 AM ET
💻 Online via Zoom
🎟 Free · Spots are limited
Have you been so busy showing up for everyone else that you’ve stopped showing up for yourself?
You may recognize yourself in one or more of these:
You take care of what everyone else needs before asking what you need.
You’re the dependable one, even when you’re tired.
You feel stuck or unsettled, but can’t explain exactly why.
You’re navigating a change in family, relationships, work or identity.
Life may look fine from the outside, yet something feels missing.
You keep waiting for the right time to make space for yourself.
You don’t need to be in crisis. You don’t have to know what comes next. This can simply be a place to begin.
WHAT TO EXPECT
75 minutes to make a little room for you.
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A welcoming space
We start with a short introduction and simple group guidelines. You can listen, reflect or participate in the ways that feel right for you.
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Exploring the roles you carry
We look at the many hats women wear and how being the responsible or dependable one can shape daily life.
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Guided reflection and journaling
You’ll have quiet time to consider what resonates with you. Bring a notebook and pen. You decide what stays private.
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Noticing familiar patterns
Through relatable examples, we explore how beliefs, guilt, fear or expectations may influence choices.
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Conversation and what comes next
There is space for discussion, plus a gentle close that invites you to reflect on what you noticed. No prior experience is needed. No one will be asked to tell their personal story.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF
You recognize yourself in any of these.
You've spent years taking care of everyone else and lost track of what you actually want
You feel stuck but can't name exactly why
You're successful on the outside and quietly depleted on the inside
You know something needs to change but don't know where to start
You've been waiting for the right moment to focus on yourself, and keep waiting
Your body is sending signals your mind keeps overriding
HOW TO GET THE MOST FROM IT
Come as you are.
Find a quiet space where you can focus for 75 minutes
Camera on is welcome, but not required
Share as much or as little as you like. You’ll never be put on the spot
Bring curiosity. You don’t need answers yet
YOUR HOST
A Note From Gail
I know how easy it is to become the woman everyone depends on and lose track of the woman underneath all those responsibilities.
For years, I measured my strength by how much I could carry. Through my own growth and life changes, I began to see how some patterns and expectations were shaping my choices.
I created Find the Lock to offer women a supportive place to begin asking their own questions. Not because I have all the answers, but because I believe awareness is where meaningful change can begin.
You deserve space to hear yourself again.
— Gail Sylvester
UPCOMING SESSIONS
Find the Lock runs regularly.
Pick your date.
NEXT SESSION
Saturday, November 14, 2026
9:00 AM – 10:15 AM ET · Online via Zoom · Free
UPCOMING
Wednesday, November 18, 2026
7:30 PM – 8:45 PM ET · Online via Zoom · Free
UPCOMING
Wednesday, December 2, 2026
7:30 PM – 8:45 PM ET · Online via Zoom · Free
UPCOMING
Saturday, December 12, 2026
9:00 AM – 10:15 AM ET · Online via Zoom · Free
A note on pricing: All four Find the Lock sessions are free.
What happens after Find the Lock?
Find the Lock is a place to begin noticing. For women who want to go further, there is Unlocked. Unlocked is a separate nine-week guided personal growth program based on three stages:
Awareness: Notice the roles, beliefs and patterns that have shaped your choices.
Acceptance: Understand yourself with more compassion and less judgment.
Action: Take small, intentional steps that reflect who you are today and what you want next.
It includes a short recorded lesson each week, time for reflection and a live group Circle. The first Unlocked program is planned for January 2027. You are not required to join it to attend Find the Lock.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Find the Lock is a free, 75-minute guided session held live on Zoom. It helps women notice the roles, beliefs and familiar patterns that may be shaping their lives. It includes reflection, journaling and optional conversation.
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It is for women who have spent years caring for others, taking responsibility and meeting expectations, and who want to reconnect with themselves. You may be going through a change, or you may simply feel ready to ask what you want next.
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No. You do not need a crisis, a breakup or a major transition. Curiosity about yourself is enough.
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Yes. The four scheduled introductory sessions on November 14, November 18, December 2 and December 12, 2026 are free. There is no obligation to buy another program.
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No. Share as much or as little as you like, and camera on is optional.
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Small, so everyone has room to be heard. Spots are limited.
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You’ll get a confirmation email with your Zoom link, plus a reminder before your session.
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No. Sharing is optional. You can listen, write in your journal and participate at your own pace. You will not be asked to disclose personal details.
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We may talk generally about how past experiences shape beliefs and habits. This is not a trauma-processing session, and you will not be asked to revisit or describe painful memories.
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No. Find the Lock is a personal growth and educational experience. It is not therapy, counselling, medical advice or mental health treatment.
“You don’t need all the answers to begin.”
If something here feels familiar, you are welcome to join us. Make 75 minutes for yourself. Come as you are. See what you notice.