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Find The Lock

A 75 minute session for women in midlife.

A facilitated experience designed to help you recognise you're not alone and that what you've been carrying has a name.

📅Wednesday, June 24, 2026

🕖7:00 PM – 8:15 PM EST

💻Online via Zoom

🎟First session is free - spots are limited

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WHAT IS FIND THE LOCK?

Before anything can change, you first have to understand what's been holding you where you are.

Find the Lock is a guided 75-minute online group experience for women in midlife who feel overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure of who they are beneath all the responsibilities they've carried for years.

This isn't a workshop. It's not a webinar. And it's not a sales pitch.

It's a real conversation in a small, private group of women who are asking many of the same questions:

Why do I feel this way?

How did I get here?

And what needs to change?

Together, we'll begin exploring the patterns, beliefs, expectations, and roles that may have quietly shaped your life for years without you even realizing it.

That's the lock.

Not the circumstances. Not the people around you. The deeper pattern underneath it all. Because once you can see it, you can begin to change it. One of the most powerful moments in this experience is realizing you're not the only one carrying the weight.

The exhaustion. The responsibility. The pressure to hold everything together while losing pieces of yourself along the way. The women in this room understand because they're living it too.

This isn't about fixing yourself. It's about creating space to reconnect with the woman you've always been underneath everything life has asked you to carry.

And discovering you don't have to do it alone.

Find the Lock is also the recommended starting point before joining Unlocked.

It gives you the opportunity to explore where you are today, understand what's been standing in your way, and decide whether the deeper journey of Unlocked is right for you.


WHAT TO EXPECT

75 minutes. No homework. Just show up.


01

A room where nothing needs to be performed

Small group. Private Zoom session. A grounded, honest conversation built on confidentiality and mutual respect.


02

A guided exercise

A structured process designed to help you see what's actually been holding you back, often with more clarity than you'd expect.


03

Real conversation

Women in the same chapter of life. Honest. Grounded. No performance required.


THIS IS FOR YOU IF

You recognize yourself in any of these.

  • You've spent years taking care of everyone else and lost track of what you actually want

  • You feel stuck but can't name exactly why

  • You're successful on the outside and quietly depleted on the inside

  • You know something needs to change but don't know where to start

  • You've been waiting for the right moment to focus on yourself, and keep waiting

  • Your body is sending signals your mind keeps overriding


THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF

Be honest with yourself.

  • You're looking for a quick fix or a motivational pep talk

  • You're not ready to be honest with yourself yet

  • You want someone to tell you what to do without doing any of the work


YOUR HOST

I know what it feels like to keep running and to have no idea how far you've drifted from yourself.

I built a successful mortgage business from the ground up as a single mother. I owned properties, managed a team, handled my family's crises alongside my own. From the outside it looked like strength. From the inside it was survival, and I didn't know the difference for a very long time.

It wasn't until everything collapsed in a single year. A family health crisis, my nervous system finally giving out, that I was forced to stop. And in that stopping, I finally started to hear myself again underneath everything I'd been carrying.

That's why I created Find the Lock. Because before anything can change, you have to find the one thing that's been keeping you exactly where you don't want to be anymore.

I've been in that room. I know what it feels like to finally start hearing yourself again, and how different everything looks when you do.

— Gail Sylvester

A woman with glasses and dark hair, wearing a white turtleneck sweater and black pants, sitting cross-legged on a white desk in front of a red wall. There is a small potted plant and a gold heart-shaped sculpture on the desk.

NEXT SESSION

Wednesday, June 24, 2026

7:00 PM – 8:15 PM EST  ·  Online via Zoom  ·  Limited spots

✦ First session — Free

UPCOMING SESSIONS

Find the Lock runs regularly.
Pick your date.

COMING SOON

Wednesday, July 22, 2026

7:00 PM – 8:15 PM EST  ·  Online via Zoom  ·  Limited spots

$27

COMING SOON

Wednesday, August 19, 2026

7:00 PM – 8:15 PM EST  ·  Online via Zoom  ·  Limited spots

$27

A note on pricing: The first Find the Lock session is free, because the best way to know if this is right for you is to experience it. Future sessions are $27. Because your time and ours deserve to be taken seriously.


"If you're reading this and something in you just exhaled, this is for you."

75 minutes. No pressure. Just a real conversation.
You don't need to have everything figured out to start.